What is the second baby gift etiquette? - Thrive Global (2024)

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You can't go wrong with a gift that's significant for baby No. 2 (think: a monogrammed item or something otherwise personalized for them). And of course, as with all babies, be sure to put safety first.

It's fine to have a baby shower for a second or third baby. This party is often (cutely) called a "Sprinkle" instead of a shower since the family welcoming the new child likely already has many of the items needed (though not always!). Immediate family and very close friends are usually included.

A baby sprinkle is a casual and smaller-scale version of a baby shower. It is typically held for parents who are expecting their second, third, or subsequent child. The term "sprinkle" is a play on words, as it suggests a lighter celebration compared to the more elaborate and traditional baby showers.

If you're having a sprinkle for baby number two, it's a good idea to consider making a second baby registry. You don't have to share it (but certainly can if you'd like), but it's a nice-to-have as a guide for guests who would like to purchase a gift and are looking for some suggestions.

Traditionally the host will pay but this will depend on many factors. This includes the venue, budget, size of the guest list, and how extravagant it may be. For instance, you can't expect your best friend to throw a huge baby shower and pay for it all herself.

If you're pondering over the proper amount to spend on a baby sprinkle gift, the unwritten rule hovers around $20 to $50. It's a gentle shower of affection, not the full-on downpour of the first-time baby shower.

The name says it all: Instead of a bigger party where first-time parents are showered with gifts, a baby sprinkle is a more casual, relaxed gathering where the guests of honor are "sprinkled" with support and potentially smaller gifts.

Basics: Diapers, wipes, formula, new bottles, pacifiers, and a second car seat. Upgrades: A dual video monitor, another sound machine, and a new or larger diaper bag. Tip: Check all pump parts, including the tubes, to ensure they're working. Register for any broken accessories.

First-time-mom baby registries typically include between 100 and 120 items. This should be more than enough to cover everything you will need for your baby. Because with any type of baby registry, the aim is to only get things for your baby that you will actually need and use.

Typically, couples who are renewing their vows do not have a registry or even expect to receive gifts from their guests. If you are especially close with the couple, you may consider giving them something small and personal, like engraved his-and-hers champagne glasses or make a donation to a charity of their choice.